To me, Charles was an object of some fascination. He was the oldest grandchild on Mom's side of the family, my oldest cousin, and the son of my favorite aunt and uncle. I used to study his pictures at Grandma's house trying to figure out who he was from those pictures and the stories I heard. There was the embroidery he had done in school, his graduation picture, pictures of him and Micha and lots of others. He was always a handsome one.
Most of my memories are not really mine at all, but stories of him told to me by Momma. By the time I was born, Aunt Terri and Uncle Joey had moved away and I rarely saw Charles.
I do remember one Christmas at Grandma's house in North Carolina though. I loved Christmases there, because everyone was there. That year they really were, too. I must have been 10 or 11. That Christmas, I got a whole bunch of board games, so of course I wanted to play them right away. No one really wanted to play with me but Mom said, "Ask Charles. I bet he'll play with you." I was a little bit intimidated because he was so much older than me and because I barely knew him, but I asked him anyway and we played. I don't even remember what the game was. Clue, or Life, or Monopoly or some other board game that he had probably played a million times. It really meant a lot to me that he would take the time to play with his little girl cousin.
Though I can't boast a wealth of memories with Charles, I know he held and holds a very special place in our family and in our hearts, mine included.